Living.... Growing...

How does it feel when someone says 

"No" 

"I cant do it for the sake of you"

"I don't like it"

When one person wanted or expected someone to do or give something but he or she refused to do or give, how would it be !!!

Lol 😂😂

Once upon a time, long long ago so long ago I used to feel sad, even bad at times. I used to think why cant they do it just for fellow human beings. We all are under the sun na 

There is saying na we are bhai, bahan, sometimes dhosthon 😋🫣 

Not everyone can be bhai bahan na so, dhosthon.

But when children enter into the journey along with us, they show everything differently. The last few days something is running on my mind and making me feel so good. 

Just an incident, but.... 

My genie, Love of My Life, My Little one had old uniform t-shirts which are very fit as of now. And we have got a few more new uniform t shirts for this year. She is taking only new uniform t shirts, so i am insisting the last two weeks to use the old ones too, where i could have little breathing time for my laundry as I'm quite packed with lots of work. Like New Block, community Lunch, Classroom set-up alterations, Farm visit planning goes on.... 

I keep telling her these days to use both new and old T-shirts. So far she was just telling mmm, okay, i will see many other things too. But she was wearing only new T-shirts. 

So last Tuesday i took the old t-shirt, ironed and kept ready for her. As soon as she finished playing with water (so called bathing but what she does is playing) she came and started searching for a new one. 

Then I said I kept everything ready for you. She gave one look and said

"No I'm not going to use that shirt,

It's tight for me " again i insisted. But 

She refused with a strict No. (Standing for her own needs and Dharma)

I was stunned and felt so happy. How could I feel happy when i was told No. when she stood for her own needs and Dharma. 

Yes standing for her own needs and Dharma only made me feel so happy.

What if she accepted to wear, even then i would have felt happy because she is still little one yet to grow. Let me enjoy these days. Once she grows up I will have other things to feel woww

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